Tips found looking through the books...

I just recently filled up my "requests" at the library with wedding books. I have been browsing through the stack of 50 books now sitting in the corner of my living room and thought I would share with you some tips from the experts in planning a wedding successfully.

Steps for Successful Wedding Planning

1. Work with what you have. If you have a generous, helpful family of DIY Divas, Use them! Utilize the talents or your friends and family for an especially unique and intimate experience. Asking for their advice defnitely saves time and hassle.... as long as they know YOU are the one making the FINAL decision!
2. Create a positive mindset. There will be things that you and your fiance might not cagree on and unwanted input from family members, the wedding party, or friends. Keep calm, just like life, it isn't always easy. Just remember that all the headaches will disappear when you are standing next to your husband at the end of that aisle.
3. Have fun while you plan your wedding. Every bride gets to experience the lifestyle we usually on see in Hollywood. So eat it up! Go to as many churches, museums, halls, parks when searching for the right venue. Taste test as many different bakeries as you can. Try on zillions of gorgeous gowns. Take part in registry parties that are geared for couples starting their homes. Introduce the wedding party at a fun wine and cheese tasting. You are only limited by your imagination.
4. Take advantage of familial bonding. Honestly, sometimes the only time busy families can really come together is at weddings and funerals. Since this is one of the happiest times in a persons life, let your family enjoy it too. Let them throw engagement parties or showers for you. Give them a part in the planning. They have seen you grow up experiencing you joys and pains right by your side. Honor them by including them whenever possible.
5. Expect to be nervous. Between planning, registering, and accomodating family requests, things can get a bit nerve racking. Just take a breath and know that this is normal.
6. Remain respectful. Bridezilla's are fun to watch on t.v., but not to experience in person. Even if something really bothers you, take a step back from the situation before reacting. Remember, you wedding party is there to support you, not let you walk all over them.
7. Don't overextend. You are planning what will become one of your most treasured memories, not a mission to Mars.